For Men
You’re not getting a free pass. But you are getting the truth.
SOAR is for men who want:
- To understand why they offended
- To confront their trauma without collapsing into self-pity
- To build daily accountability
- To learn real emotional regulation
- To create a plan for a life that does not repeat the past
If you want to do the work, we’re here.
For Families
You may be hurt, angry, confused — or all three at once.
SOAR helps families understand:
- How trauma and secrecy travel through generations
- How mother–son boundary collapse affects everyone in the home
- How to set loving boundaries without enabling
- How to support a man who is genuinely trying to change
- How to understand the full story without minimizing the harm
Families deserve clarity, not confusion.
For the Curious
You don’t need to be an offender or family member to want the truth.
SOAR welcomes:
- Survivors
- Neighbors
- Advocates
- People who want prevention, not panic
We explore:
- How early trauma shapes adult choices
- Why punishment alone doesn’t reduce future risk
- Why mother–son trauma is the missing piece in most offender research
- How we can break the cycle together
Curiosity is how change begins.