Naming the Wound No One Wants to Talk About
MotherMade is SOAR’s focused project on mother–son trauma, which centers the reality that many men who offend were first harmed in ways that have never been named or processed.
MotherMade breaks open the truth about:
- Emotional incest
- Role-reversal and parentification
- Maternal jealousy
- Boundary collapse
- Enmeshment disguised as love
- Childhood shame that metastasizes into adult harm
If you grew up being “mother’s little man,” “her confidant,” “her emotional husband,” or “her
possession,” then MotherMade puts language to the life you lived.
This project includes:
- A YouTube series
- Research breakdowns
- Survivor-informed stories
- Emotional and spiritual healing tools
- Community conversations
- Future collaborations with researchers and clinicians
When you name the wound, it loses its power.
MotherMade helps you name it.